I worry for the guys who take these 14 year olds' virginities. They're being exploited by the sexist law.

Bah, as the famous chinese saying goes:

Virginity like bubble - one prick, all gone.

most girls don't have "losen" in their vocab, whether virgin or not.

time has changed. its not a big deal anymore (at least for those gals).

No big deal?

You reap what you sow!

What, if I sow sperm I reap sprem?

The law have be written .
i think to solve this problem, first, they must ask their self, do you jealous?

ha! i look down on all of you!
i on moral high horse!
i 30 years old and still virgin!

because you are ugly?

why do you look down on us just because we chose to have sex at a young age and have a life, and not live by the book? you're the one we all look down on for shoving your nonsense down our throats

The law have written.
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I do stick by being virgin till marriage.. coz is really something wonderful that u can give ultimately to the one u love.. of course at passionate moments, one might find it hard to control but i always feel u can do *others not necessary sex to increase the intimacy between u and ur love.. like BJ and others..is really up to u to decide :p

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Im worried if a girl i liKe doesent wait for me till im threw with the army.

I think that this is really ashame to see that these young bois and gurls loose their virgenity and not wait i think that if u r 14 years of age u should wait till u r 18 r wait until ur married thats how i feel about the situation im 16 and hasn't had sex yet

im 14 as well & most of my friends arent virgins & still haave sex. i think that 14 is to young to be having sex.

Well i lost my virginity at 13 and i think it is no big deal.

thats a big deal!!
to me,it's like 'cheap'...

im 14 sex at a young age is not good i didnt want to and ima guy but my hormones got the most of me and i regret it everyday because its so hard to control my emotions sex is on my mind wether or not i want it to be there which is a bad thing i find it easy to find a gurl to have sex with but it takes so much control not too and it doesnt let me concentrate on more important things like school
youlll regret it one way or another if you get pregnant or you ge tthe gurl pregnant if you get stds or if you cant stop doing it

Sigh. Something similar happened to me. I wish I never agreed to it as well. :(

Im only 13 and im not a virgin in fact at this point in time I have a boyfriend that I have sex with frequently i do not think that it is any big deal plus no one looks down on me for it!!!

It's definitely a big deal, at least to me. No one looks down on you for it, yes. But it doesn't mean that people looks up to you.

And even if people were to like "look down" on you. Do you think they will say it right to your face like "Hey xxx, I look down on you man."? Yes? No?

ima tell erryone sumethin, no gurl at a young age should be havin sex, u dont kno wat u doin first of all, u really dont learn about sex until ya in high school, ya parents aint gon be able to teach u errythang about sex. trust me, ima virgin but let me tell u dis, i seen so many gurls screwed. at a young age, 5 minutes or less is worth of losing ya virginity. HELL NO. i could understand 15-20 minutes and yall wanna hurry up n do it becuz it feels so good. man yall needs to chill out, the world commin to an end with this sex shit. I Swear, i may get hard but dats just my hormonones growin and im 14. Still A VIRGIN, i jus dont even know how yall can be able to do it, you lettin a weak ass nigga put dicks in yall. wen ya gettin pregnact, lets see if dat father gon be durr???

what about for a guy, i've never really had an intercourse, but yeah, still got a BJ. Am i still a virgin?

wow, what a good question, my dear you are not also a virgin, because virginity is a sign of " UNTOUCHED " you been touched by girls, had BJ, means you have almost done your sexual activities, you know the taste and ways of doing it, so now you are no more virgin, but girls even had anal sex and done many times BJ also can be virgin, if they had not done intercourse properly.

are u a NooB? -___-

seriously....

jesus -.- sex at 13 in what 20 more years .. people will have sex at 8 .__________.

i am 16 now. i lost my virginity when i was 13 to a boy who was 15. we went out for a long time and i had nobody in my life my family didnt really care what i did or even showed that they cared about me at all. i fell in love with him and i was stupid. i wanted to wait intill i was married. he wanted to take it to the next level but i told him no for a while hen 1 day we had sex.ithought to myself that i might as well lose it to someone i love. the week after he broke up with me bc he said hes moving to florida to go live with his uncle.of course i took it really hared the next day i seen him holding hands with this one girl walking right past me.he left for florida.while he was gone all his friends told me how he always cheated on me.he moved bak and the years went by he is now 18 and we fight all the time.i wish i would have waited i tell every1 who wants to lose theyre virginity at a young age to think twice,its not worth it.i regret losing it and i regret him.

I don't blame you, bcz this age is very dangrous, it is the time when we fly in air, we don't even give importance to any body, we feel that we can do any thing in the world, no senses and no wisdom, for your kind information, about 85% girls lose their virginity in the same age, it is more worse in European countries, where the average is more less, anyway now control your self and become matured, be a practical girl and handle the situation with complete wisdom, don't let every body to take advantage of you. God bless you.

and to all those lil kids im sorry because even though you think nobody looks down on you ur azz iz wrong people are really talking about how you get around and guys think your easy so theyre gonna come up 2 u and only want you for sex,nothing else but sex.sorry but thats how it works now.if you already lost it dont go havin sex with no one else except the guy that you lost it too.ive ben through the game.ino how it works.ive been through alot...my little sister is 13 and she learned that its not worth it.she learned from all the things i went threw all bc i lost my v card at 13.just think its giving your love away your giving your innocence to him.u will never forget him u better hope he isnt like the rest of the guys who just want you 4 sex.

it would be nice if more girls are open. i would luv to fuck one now and i'm 14.

Wow...Most of you are complete idiots! Losing your virginity at the age of 15 or less!? I just can't believe how stupid people are these days. And to think, I was regretting losing my virginity at the age of 18 with my husband before we were married. Now I realize that I was lucky and I am so thankful that I am not an idiot like most of you!

Ok so some advice to those of you who are 15 or less and are thinking of having sex...be smarter than those who have already lost their virgity at the age of 15 or less...wait to have sex. Also...

*You may THINK that you love him/her...but best bet is that you don't.
*You are still young! Go out and have fun with your friends...not sex.
*Think twice, they won't be the first person to want it and they are not your only chance.
*You have more important things to worry about! Jobs are not getting easier to find...so make sure you are able to graduate from high school.

You all have a lot to live for and a better life to look forward to. Don't ruin it by going out and having sex at such a young age. You never know what bad things can come from having sex so young. I hope all who read this and are still virgins realize what they have going for them and realize just how smart they are for waiting :)

well. i wld be honest that i lose mine too when i was 19 to the one i love and i still love till this day.
for me, sex is something sensual. the intimancy and all makes our relationshop better. it may seem like im contradicting but i may be doing so.
like everyone, i tot i wld give it to my husband after i got married. but well, before marriage. but i haven regret it. becoz i enjoy my weekly sex. lol.

but there are consequences. once, my period was late for a week, and i tot i was pregnant. turn out it was because i was stress. although i practice safe sex, but how safe can it be?

girls. making out is fun. but think. when you get married to your husband, would you mind you aren't the first girl for him, he may jolly well have spread sexual diseases to you. can you imagine having stare at 10girls and when he stare at ur naked body. you are just another girl in his life?

sex is fun. but don't let it carry you away. how and what are you going to do if you get pregnant at a young age? you will never have the financial means to bring up the child. face it. the society is tough. so think thru it alot of times.

i have friends who are kicking themselves for giving up their virginity too easily becoz they were tempted to.
just think thru it, and parents and schools should stop avoiding the taboo topic.
we have too much teenage preganacy nowadays.

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Im thinkin real hard bcuz 2nite i plan 2 lose it n afta reading everything yall wrote Im so scared i thought i wanted it sooo bad n i do mi horomones b goin crazy I planned 2 lose it at 18 but 18 is moving 2 damn slow now im thinking if im goin 2 regret it....................

you are bullshit...think beyond the surface man...just for a moment of gratification to both...you think there will be happy ever after after that?!!!come on man...get a life and start thinking deeper...

if memory serves (which always does, unless the administrator(s) of CNA delete/edit their article), i seem to have read/inferred from CNA that the youngest ppl who lose their virginity are only 10 years old. and that is the "reported" ones.

in this "hedonistic age", virginity is worthless and one's value is assessed by the number of pus*ies he screwed, or the number of c*cks that entered her, how well she knows how to use her tongue, and one's skill in using his/her private parts.

in fact, i think that the term "private part" is no longer applicable, because they arent "private" anymore.

however, wat disgusts me to no end is that, sluts think they are worth a lot, and "play hard to get" when they are just, sluts. i remember an exchange on a forum somewhere, where somebody called these people "community soup". lol... guy A has sex with Slut, then guy B has sex with Slut, then guy C has sex with Slut, then Guy D.... u get the idea. everybody uses the slut's "pleasure" holes.

and of course, sluts would argue that they arent sluts, but they are only using their "sex organs on different people". OR their "God-given sex organs on different people" if they are religious. lol...

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@kinkyexorcist

when speaking about virginity, i tend to think of it as a whole, not just whether the hymen has been torn, or the c*ck has entered a pus*y. so, in your opinion, i gather that it is perfectly OK to s*ck thousands upon thousands of c*cks as long as the guys dont f*ck the pus*y?

that is just wrong, that girl is as much of a slut as any others who let guys f*ck. just that she believes that she isnt a slut and play hard to get. and wat the slut believes is not important because in the ABSOLUTE sense of the word, she is still a slut.
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so, in closing,

the world is full of sluts, in fact, i would go as far as to say that ALL are sluts. it is just a matter of HOW slut the sex object is.

so virgins either f*ck the sluts, and become a slut themselves, or be lonely for the rest of their lives, or get married to a slut and "waste" his/her virginity by f*cking the experienced slut.

as for those who regret after screwing/getting screwed...

"once a slut, always a slut"

all i can say to these people is, "DUN BLUFF, LAH!". when the temptation comes again, u r gonna do the same thing again. of course, it is in my opinion that u sluts do not even have the right to "play hard to get" and "denounce 'slutti-sm'" considering how slut u all are already.

heh. just spread your legs and/or open your mouth, lah! slut. wat regret? slut already, no matter how much u regret, still a slut, wat! so, f*ck u, sluts! lol... wat a pun.

*Disclaimer: "slut" is referring to BOTH genders, in case some f*cking cb feminists make unnecessary noise, instead of focusing on the subject at hand. although this respondent prefers to use it on the female gender, because u guessed it, this respondent is a male, and a virgin at that, u slut!

i seem to notice that most posts in this page are opposed to people having sex at a certain age, or below a certain age.

i will hasten to remind all of you that once the sex organ becomes fully operational, an animal/human being can have sex. and before that, the animal/human being knows the pleasure the sex organ will give, by the animal's/human being's own exploration.

the "age limit" those of you may have specified is ABSOLUTELY meaningless, because it is only a 'guide' in which u have been conditioned to believe in, and after this 'conditioning' u have answered in your post, the automatic response based on your conditioning, which is, no sex while still being a minor/illegal age/watever age u may believe in.

u can read more about this conditioning in "pavlovian conditioning".

therefore, it is ABSOLUTELY meaningless to debate about when the fella should begin to have sex, and when the fella should NOT have sex. laws TRY to prevent children from having sex and/or being exploited by people, and/or exploited by the sex industry.

however, does that mean that the "long reaching arm" of the law will catch each and every minor that has sex, and their sex partners? i think that the law's "long reaching arm", is not "long" enough. heh.

wat IS meaningful, however, is WHY people want to have sex. which is also, in my opinion, also related to the conditioning of the peoples' minds.

this will include the media the subject is exposed to, the environment (NOT THE GRASS AND THE TREES, u dope!), and the subject's own moral values (which are more or less based on the 2 mentioned before), and the level of temptation.

hey, i dunno what the hell is going on with all of you guys, but didn't you guys take some times to recall you're 'nice memory' now. are you regret??? if you still had the second chance, which path you guys choose? answer for yourself!

@Dvilz

i do not have a "nice memory".

and, most of these people are just opposed to underaged sex, so theoretically speaking, once the person turns 16 they dun really care if he/she f*cks a million people per day.

"given a second chance" is purely a hypothetical question, therefore it does not matter because nobody has a second chance.

wat they did the "first time round" is more important than wat they'd do "given a second chance".

interesting debate. i'm quite surprised to see that there are so many 13 yos having sex.

to me, losing one's virginity is no big deal. so is sex actually. sex is merely a physical activity by two consenting individuals to achieve pleasure.

but what is troublesome about this notion is everything AROUND it. because sex is an intimate activity, emotions are involved. when the party is not mature enough to handle it then comes the subsequent feelings of guilt and regret. and MOST 13 yo's are hardly mature enough to handle such issues (if u are, good for u. but u probably are not.).

not forgetting STDs - the most serious of which is pregnancy, because a life is created.

virginity itself is also a warped concept. in our day and age of MTV and explicit content filled with sexually charged innuendos everywhere u look, is it possible to stay pure? to me virginity is the entire package - your mind, body and soul. there's no absolute virginity - there is a spectrum and where u are on depends on how much you know and do. in an urban society, there are no virgins. u have to be a nun to be one.

so get over ur societal notions and do whatever you feel right.

I'm a thirteen year old girl and still a virgin. I have no goal to wait to lose my virginity, I say it will happen when it happens and I won't regret it. Everyone is different, wether you choose to loose it in a one night stand, or with someone you've been with for a while, sex is sex. I myself also think that the law is being pointless. No matter how much they go on about how illegal it is, people still do it, the same things with drugs, and whatever else is illegal. So really, leave people having sex alone and go arrest a crackhead or two. Or not. Sex is a natural thing and we should be able to have it without fear of being locked up. Nothing is wrong with a seventeen year old loving a thirteen year old, when it comes down to it, it's how emotionally strong and mature you are. IT'S NONE OF THE LAWS F*CKING BUSINESS!